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Posting Komentar Catatan: Hanya anggota dari blog ini yang dapat mengirim komentar. Whenever you start thinking about changing something in your life or trying something new, you shade the idea with so much negativity, you kill it altogether. I love these two labels because they make it super easy to spot which one you use to kill your dreams. If you ever catch yourself acting like a chicken or a jerk, wake the hell up—you are not being powerful! Let me show you how this works.
Alison wants to be an actress. You do the same thing. Brian wants to get out of the mortgage business. But when he sees an interesting franchise advertised in the back of a magazine instead of calling the number for more information—the jerk steps in. When thinking about change just makes you more frustrated and annoyed about the situation you are currently in—WAKE UP!
What if I me? It fail? What laugh. What if. If only I had. I should have. What you feel Fear, nerves, Anger, frustration, blame, inside anxiety, worry, smarminess, sarcasm, concern, paralysis, resignation, stubbornness, overwhelmed, annoyance, impatience unworthiness What you It will feel terrifying The powerful you must should expect and radical to force go head to head with yourself to act the jerk in your brain.
You will argue against has built up in your taking action. You will brain. Expect dissolve. With every your brain to wage push forward, the a campaign against chicken in your mind moving forward until will get quieter and you start racking up a quieter until you no couple of small wins.
It may sound a little simplistic or cheesy to you. But getting what you want in life really does boil down to these little moments when either your negative mind-set takes control or the powerful you steps in and pushes forward. Your resistance to change, whether it mani- fests as fear or anger or stubbornness, keeps you on the safe, familiar path.
Allowing a chicken or a jerk to run your life never ends well. So what do you do when the chicken or the jerk is killing your motivation to act? The fix is not about making bold five-year plans, or locking yourself into death-march marathon efforts. You see, action is its own reward. Every new action you make, and every positive step you take toward change, will provide you with the inspiration and energy to take the next step. Every positive action creates momentum to supply the next action.
Your challenge is simply to stop hitting the snooze and start. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Not next year. Start taking action now. You need to follow a recipe that helps you defeat the chicken and jerk mind-sets that you consider normal. When you feel like there are too many things outside your control, you start feeling powerless and unhappy.
The outside world operates on your inner well-being. The world has totally changed beneath your feet and it has an enormous impact on how you feel. The economy has been undergo- ing seismic changes since the start of the s.
Hundreds of thou- sands of jobs have moved overseas, and the American economy has moved away from the stability of heavy manufacturing industries into a more volatile, service-driven system. The Web has exploded the amount of information you process every day, and created the need to adapt to a constant series of new gadgets and ideas.
New problems and new decisions arrive at your doorstep each week. The modern world teaches you that there are too many things out of your control. As the world inserts all sorts of uncertainties into your life, your mind supplements them by install- ing its own doubts. Of course, on the path to adulthood, you are forced to make big decisions that impact the direction of your life. The schools you attend, the jobs you accept, the monthly nut you need to cover, the friends you keep, maybe marriage and children—these decisions stick with you for a long time.
As you look backward on each decision, and the path you took, you become more aware of the things you left behind. Instead of seeing what a new job brought to your life, you begin to think about all the other jobs it cut you off from. Instead of seeing your marriage as a step toward building a truly adult relationship, you frame it as a burden that keeps you from growing individually.
The demands of life can seem all-consuming. After a long week, you look back and it can feel as if you had no spare time to do something interesting just for yourself. These internal and external forces reinforce and maintain a feel- ing of being stuck. The uncertainty caused by the economic climate, combined with the trap of daily routine, and the sense of sacrifice from unrealized dreams all create a spellbinding illusion that you lack control.
Control cuts to the heart of our lives. A lack of control inspires all sorts of negative philosophical questions. Without control, you start to question your place in life, where you are headed, and what is the point of it all.
Were my expectations too high? Is my life really supposed to be this unfulfilling? Is there something wrong with me? You start to feel hopeless and too afraid to try anything new. You get mad and start acting like a jerk.
You find yourself jealous of people who have more than you. You adopt a victim mentality and judge the world critically in order to make yourself feel better. Obviously, these mind-sets keep you stuck. In fact, if you can reclaim control over 5 percent of your life, and spend that time doing something productive, energy-inspiring, and action-oriented, you will quickly restore order and balance to your life.
You will find all the routine, uncertainty, and difficulty signifi- cantly more tolerable. You will discover that this small 5 percent acts like an anchor to reorient your whole perspective. But brace yourself, that first 5 percent is the hardest part. Action Is the Key to Everything Action is the key to becoming more powerful. An action is a thought brought to life. Something as simple as getting up from your chair and stepping outside began with a thought.
You thought about it, and somehow it happened. Compare it to other situations where you are passive. When you take action, your thoughts animate your body with purpose, and your body changes some small part of the world. Five seconds is a lifetime for your brain and plenty of time for your thoughts and feelings to step in and kill the idea. Your brain can surely make up its mind quicker than you allow.
So try it. Take one small action now. Action unites body and mind. Every action starts with an inner, mental impulse and finishes with a physical gesture that rubs you up against the fabric of the world. Action is your own personal bridge from inside to outside. The feeling of control is tightly linked to action.
When you can take action and see positive results in the world, you feel powerful. Your mind is still working fine, because you can perfectly imagine the way your life should be going. Your thoughts give a very clear picture of the way things are supposed to be. You keep looking for ways to make a change. But something is preventing your deepest desires from translating into a concrete action. Every experience in every moment of your life contains two pri- mary elements: one is the outside world, the setting and circum- stances that frame the moment.
The other is the set of feelings, thoughts, and attitudes within you that both drive and respond to the moment. You must start by taking back control of your head if you want to gain control over your life. Rather, coax yourself into action by focusing on the steps in the organic process or on merely getting started. First of all, you probably feel overwhelmed and intimidated by the size and scale of change that would be needed to make a true difference in your life.
So when she thinks about the change she wants to make in her life, instead of viewing it as an organic process, she sees herself at the premiere of her first movie talking to the paparazzi. There are too many obligations and distractions that keep you from really spending the time on it.
Rather, push your- self to just start without it being perfect and move forward and improve from there. You also have to deal with all of the uncertainty that surrounds your goal. The world today is so complex and unforgiving. Without knowing how to do something, it feels impossible to dive in and start doing it. That just makes you even angrier. He punishes himself every time he sees the balance in his checking account. He feels like throttling the mortgage brokers in the office when they ring the bell, the sign of another deal closed and commission dollars rolling into their bank accounts, not his.
It takes real work to make things happen. But amid all the fear and anger, you have forgotten about the most powerful ally in the world—yourself. Your inner world is completely under your control. Your emotions may feel overwhelm- ing, the world may be pushing your buttons constantly, and those chicken and jerk feelings may undermine you at every turn, but you can regain control.
You can start thinking bigger. Bigger than this moment. Bigger than this obstacle. Bigger than your fears and your frustrations. And you will start to see the results of your effort almost immediately. You will continue to allow your feelings and thoughts to interrupt the path from dream to reality, and sap the energy that drives real change. You Are Not Fine The first and most important step is to stop saying you are fine.
You are not fine. I am tired of my small-mindedness. I am tired of my excuses. I am tired of who I am. I am tired of pre- tending that I have it all figured out.
I want to become something more than who I am today.
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